Typically, I have about 5-10 MIT's in my day but I find that they are absolutely manageable if I apply myself immediately. This is not entirely true with the rest of my life. I am embarrassed to say that my husband has to continuously call me at work to remind me to call the fence guy, or mail the letter, go to the bank... you get the idea. Somehow, my personal life doesn't get the same attention as my work life. And that sucks.
So... one of my new habits has been to create personal MIT's that I feel will move me in the direction of becoming more of the person that I really want to be. The loving, charming, energized, beautiful, successful, and happy wife... The patient, funny, warm, available, huggy mom. Here are my obstacles:
- I'm tired
- I'm freakin' BUSY
- I'm obsessed with keeping a clean house
- I worry
- Time moves at warp speed these days
- I don't always feel present
Some of these statements are true. Some, not so much. Maybe more perception than reality, but either way, I feel these things dragging me down and I've already begun tackling them. Here is a snippet of my personal life's MIT's...
My MIT's for the Hub:
love my husband and do it well
be present and available
be lovable
be beautiful
be energetic
be successful
be the helper
be his cheerleader and confidante
also make him laugh
My MIT's for the P:
be loving and kind and quiet
be funny {and fun}
stop trying multitask
play
read
teach
be snuggly and lovey
make her feel safe
be available
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